Parents' Guide to The Bachelorette

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Common Sense Media Review

Kari Croop By Kari Croop , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Televised search for love has an iffy premise.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 14+

Based on 7 parent reviews

age 12+

Based on 7 kid reviews

What's the Story?

Building on the success of long-running reality dating show The Bachelor, this spin-off gives a jilted bachelorette who didn't get the proposal she was looking for on The Bachelor a second chance to find true love among her own pool of 25 single men. In an elimination-style series of one-on-one "dates" and group challenges, she gradually whittles her prospective suitors down to just one lucky guy, who's presumably the man she's going to marry.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 7 ):
Kids say ( 7 ):

Unless you're a sucker for overwrought romance, THE BACHELORETTE is downright difficult to watch. The dramatic drive-ups in a limousine, the emotional rose ceremonies, the dramatically lit mansion with the glowing fireplaces -- it's all a bit much for a thinking person. But one thing's for sure: This show succeeds in preying upon our subconscious desire for fairy-tale endings.

While the bachelorette herself seems to have true intentions, it's unlikely that kids will learn any meaningful lessons from her search -- except that they should never, ever, sign up to become a future Bachelorette contestant.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the success rates of reality shows that purport to help people find "true love." What are the disadvantages to meeting your future spouse on a nationally televised dating show? Are there any advantages you can think of? Do you think the bachelorette's prospective mates are really looking for romance -- or their 15 minutes of fame? What about the bachelorette herself? Do you think her motives for being on the show are 100% genuine?

TV Details

  • Premiere date : May 19, 2008
  • Cast : Chris Harrison
  • Network : ABC
  • Genre : Reality TV
  • TV rating : TV-14
  • Last updated : October 20, 2022

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