Who's the Boss?

TV review by
Audrey Shapiro, Common Sense Media
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Classic '80s sitcom about a blended family.

Parents say

age 11+
Based on 6 reviews

Kids say

age 10+
Based on 6 reviews

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The parents' guide to what's in this TV show.

Positive Messages

The characters are caring and sensitive. Themes explored include teen dating, parents dating, and jealousy. Each episode has a moral/life lesson. A nice turnabout on traditional gender roles.

Violence & Scariness
Sexy Stuff

Frequent innuendo from the zany, man-crazy grandmother Mona. Subtle sexual tension between the two central adult characters. Kids date as they get older (one episode features hickeys prominently).

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that in this series, two single parents, their kids, and a lively, man-crazy grandmother live together in a non-traditional family. By making the main male character a housekeeper, the show offers a good twist on traditional gender roles. The evolving relationship between Tony and Angela -- along with subtle sexual tension between them -- is a central theme. Other issues explored include teen dating, parents dating, and jealousy. The series is particularly good for kids who understand the dynamics of non-traditional families.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byLowe's man July 25, 2017

There's something that you overlooked.

Challenging traditional gender roles and turning them upside down was (and is) a good thing. However, you did not point out that it's hard to tell the kid... Continue reading
Parent of a 2, 6, and 8-year-old Written byElizabethW June 18, 2010

Good family show for older kids and parents to view together

I loved this show as a teenager and when it recently came back on TV I noticed it was given the 8 and up review, but I must say I disagree. It has quite a bit... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written byHannah1407 August 26, 2020

Ok Show

I thought this show was ok... it was a bit hard to stay interested and it included a lot of inappropriate for jokes for younger kids.
Kid, 11 years old December 28, 2013


I ❤️ this show very much I think Tony is hot my mom used to ❤️ it when she was a child

What's the story?

In this classic 1980s sitcom, Judith Light plays Angela Bower, a divorced, uptight, career-driven single mother. She hires Tony Micelli (Tony Danza), a handsome Italian widowed father who used to play for the St. Louis Cardinals but moved to upscale Connecticut to find a job that allows him to spend more time with his daughter Samantha (Alyssa Milano), to manage the household and help raise her son Jonathan (Danny Pintauro). Angela's spirited, man-crazy mother Mona (Katherine Helmond) completes the unusual family. Mona is present for all of the important moments and has the best "tells 'em like she sees 'em" one-liners.

Is it any good?

This long-running sitcom (1984-1992) was one of the first to turn traditional family and gender roles upside down. Even though its stereotypical characters border on corny, WHO'S THE BOSS? manages to be loveable and charming for today's audience, thanks largely to the chemistry of the talented ensemble cast. The show provides a glance back at how television has evolved along with social roles, hairstyles, and clothing. Its charm is in watching macho Italian male Tony manage emotional challenges and domestic chores with integrity and finesse.

The evolution of Tony and Angela's relationship and the growth of the children over the course of the series add depth to the storyline -- we see tomboy Samantha grow up and start dating and eventually get married. And Tony's sensitive, self-deprecating wit balances Angela's intensity as they work together to raise a family. Watching the subtleties of their relationship evolve becomes a central theme of the show. Sure, some of the jokes fall flat, but this classic sitcom is enjoyable family television with a clear message: Families come in many varieties.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about what constitutes a family and how this program (from the early 1980s) was one of the first to highlight a single, career-driven woman relying on a domestic male figure to run the household. What would it be like to have a man other than your dad in charge of the cooking and cleaning? How do you think you'd deal with a situation like Tony and Sam's?

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