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Touching, hilarious coming-of-age romcom.
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13 Going on 30
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Based on 31 parent reviews
Parents say this movie is a charming and humorous romantic comedy that resonates well with tweens and parents, offering valuable life lessons and the importance of friendship. However, there's a consensus that while entertaining, it contains some mature themes, making it best for children aged 10 and older to watch with an adult due to occasional language and suggestive content.
- appropriate for tweens
- positive messages
- some mature themes
- funny and charming
- parental guidance suggested
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Based on 91 kid reviews
Kids say this movie delivers an engaging mix of humor and heartfelt messages about growing up, friendship, and staying true to oneself, making it appealing to tweens and teens. However, many reviews caution that it contains a notable amount of sexual content and language, suggesting it is more suitable for mature young viewers rather than younger children.
- mature content
- good messages
- great for teens
- mixed reviews
- fun romcom
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What's the Story?
A girl who suffers total humiliation at her 13th birthday party wishes she could be 30—and, somehow, it comes true. In 13 GOING ON 30, Jenna (Jennifer Garner) wakes up to a grown-up face and figure in a swanky Manhattan apartment. This foreign world around her raises some questions: Where are her parents? Who's the guy in her shower who seems to know her a little too well? Jenna races out of the building in her pajamas, only to have a woman who seems to know her tell Jenna to get into a limo and then talk a mile a minute about some job she seems to have as editor of Poise magazine. Jenna starts to realize that she may have gotten what she wished for, but is it all that it's cracked up to be? She tracks down her very best childhood friend, Matt (Mark Ruffalo), who's now a photographer. When he tells her he hasn't seen her since high school, she begins to understand that in order to become what she wished for, she's lost some of the things that mattered most.
Is It Any Good?
This romcom offers some bright moments and nicely understated humor, despite all of the expected collisions between the lives of the 13- and 30-year-old characters. But what really makes 13 Going on 30 work is Garner, who's enormously touching and hilarious as a young teen living in the body and life of a grown adult. She's wonderfully open and vulnerable, handling it all lightly and with a lot of charm. Ruffalo, as always, adds class and sweetness to the best friend role and has impressive delicacy in providing romantic interest for someone who is, after all, emotionally just 13 years old. The two perfectly capture the awkwardness and angst that many of us feel as we try to figure out who we want to be—and that's at any age.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how the reality of being a grown-up is different than it appears to a child. What was the biggest surprise for Jenna in 13 Going on 30? How are mature topics like drinking and sex addressed?
How does the story show the importance of compassion and integrity? Why are those important character strengths?
Talk about the way middle schoolers treat one another—and how to make sure that you don't grow up with the kind of regrets that Jenna does. Is/was there a popular clique in your school?
Can you think of other movies that have a similar plot device?
Movie Details
- In theaters : April 23, 2004
- On DVD or streaming : August 3, 2004
- Cast : Jennifer Garner , Judy Greer , Mark Ruffalo
- Director : Gary Winick
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s) , Female Movie Writer(s)
- Studio : Columbia Tristar
- Genre : Comedy
- Topics : Fantasy ( Magic ) , Friendship
- Character Strengths : Compassion , Integrity
- Run time : 98 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : some sexual content and brief drug references
- Last updated : October 1, 2025
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