Parents' Guide to Alfie

Movie R 2004 103 minutes
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By Nell Minow , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

Uneven movie about a charming cad has sexy stuff.

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What's the Story?

In this remake of the 1966 Michael Caine classic, Alfie (Jude Law) is a British womanizer living in New York. Unable to commit to one woman, he breaks a lot of hearts. But then one of his lovers gets pregnant, and he appears to question his life.

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This film's value as entertainment and illumination is uneven at best. Charles Shyer and Nancy Meyers used to be married, and they used to make movies together (Baby Boom, the remakes of Father of the Bride and The Parent Trap). Now they're divorced, and they make movies separately. Hers: the very successful What Women Want and Something's Gotta Give; his: the less successful The Affair of the Necklace and now ALFIE. The two of them seem to be working through something, as both of their recent films were about the exact same thing -- the comeuppance of what we used to call a cad. This film may have had some therapeutic value for its director.

The performances are all top-notch. Each of the women creates a full and complex character, especially Nia Long as the woman Alfie's best friend loves, Susan Sarandon as an older woman as predatory as he is, Marisa Tomei as a single mom, and Sienna Miller as a beauty whose instability is at first a turn-on and then a turn-off. The film's primary and very significant asset is Law, who's brilliant in the title role. He has to make us almost as charmed by Alfie as the women he goes after, even while he is confiding in us what he is really thinking. Very few actors can make an unsympathetic character so appealing or pull off a role that involves speaking directly to the audience, and Law is constantly ingratiating, fascinating, and even touching. That is less true, however, of the rest of the film. The movie feels as empty as Alfie's heart.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about Alfie through time. Have you seen the original Alfie? How have our reactions to womanizing and drinking changed over time, if at all?

  • Do you think Alfie is a positive role model? Can someone be a role model if they make mistakes and then learn from them?

Movie Details

  • In theaters : November 4, 2004
  • On DVD or streaming : March 15, 2005
  • Cast : Jude Law , Marisa Tomei , Nia Long
  • Director : Charles Shyer
  • Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s) , Black Movie Actor(s)
  • Studio : Paramount Pictures
  • Genre : Drama
  • Run time : 103 minutes
  • MPAA rating : R
  • MPAA explanation : sexual content, some language and drug use
  • Last updated : July 4, 2022

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