Father of the Bride

Movie review by
Randy White, Common Sense Media
Father of the Bride Movie Poster Image
Parents recommendPopular with kids
Steve Martin's sweet-natured wedding weepy.
  • PG
  • 1991
  • 105 minutes

Parents say

age 11+
Based on 11 reviews

Kids say

age 10+
Based on 23 reviews

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A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Good father-daughter relationship.

Positive Role Models

Some stereotyping.


Some pratfalls but no real violence. Martin's character pitches a fit in a grocery store, lands in jail.


Mythologizes the high-cost, over-the-top wedding as though it were a requirement.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Drinking at the wedding.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Steve Martin's comic antics make this remake a sweet confection of a movie. Still, parents should know that this movie mythologizes the high-cost, over-the-top wedding as though it were a requirement for all -- the wedding industry does a fine job of that on its own. Martin Short's flamboyant character is funny, but an unfortunate gay stereotype at the same time.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent of a 12 and 15-year-old Written byJason J. October 2, 2018

Great film!-Just wish this site didn’t drop the ball with the adult content.

Enjoyed this movie when I was a kid and was excited to share it with my own kids. Didn’t remember anything wrong with it, so as is our custom, we checked Common... Continue reading
Adult Written bypattic April 9, 2008

funny for older kids

younger kids might not get the humor. there are two scenes that made me uncomfortable in the same 5 minutes. father says"don't forget to wear a condom... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written bypearbear123 January 19, 2022


I really loved this movie! There are a few sexual comments, but I think most of them will fly over kids' heads, so just be aware of that
Teen, 14 years old Written byultimatetvlover_06 June 28, 2021

Hilarious Steve Martin Movie!

Father of the Bride, follows the story of Annie Banks, and her wedding planning. George Banks, (Steve Martin) who is the father, is trying to get his head aroun... Continue reading

What's the story?

In this remake of Vincent Minnelli's 1950 film (which starred Elizabeth Taylor and Spencer Tracy), 22-year-old Annie (Kimberly Williams) comes home from a semester abroad and shocks her parents with the news that she met a wonderful guy and they're engaged. As in the original film, dad George (Steve Martin) has a hard time dealing with the fact that his little girl has grown up. He thinks she's too young to marry, even when his wife Nina (Diane Keaton) reminds him that by age 21 she'd married him and was pregnant with Annie. George puts his future son-in-law to the test to make sure he's good enough, but the main focus of this 1991 remake is the wedding. Over-the-top wedding planner Franck (Martin Short) is hired, and, as the event becomes bigger by the day, George's bank account shrinks.

Is it any good?

Father of the Bride spins a pretty web of nuptial fantasy, though it makes you wonder if such frenzied consumerism is really what weddings are about. That said, there's a lot to like, especially its warm, witty star, Steve Martin, who makes a great dad: he's prickly but loving, a real softie at heart. Diane Keaton has little to do here but smile through tears; her role has been usurped by Martin Short's Frank, the wedding planner whose bizarre accent makes each of his suggestions hilarious. The scenes between Frank and George are superb, and they more than make up for the overly sweet sentiment elsewhere.

Also to its credit, this film manages to capture the love (often unspoken) between a young woman and her father. As George wrestles with the fact that his little girl, who saw him as her hero, is leaving him forever, he experiences emotions that most parents and children will relate to. And in a welcome update of the original movie, Annie has to offer than just a pretty face: she's pursuing a career in architecture, and she can play a mean game of one-on-one.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about why Steve Martin's character acts up the way he does. Why is it hard to let go when family members change? Also, do you think a wedding should cost that much? It may be helpful to explain to kids what big business the wedding industry really is. Do you think the father, per tradition here, should be the one footing the bill?

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