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Anger Management

Movie review by
Nell Minow, Common Sense Media
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Very raunchy Sandler comedy is filled with sex and language.
  • PG-13
  • 2003
  • 100 minutes

Parents say

age 14+
Based on 11 reviews

Kids say

age 14+
Based on 33 reviews

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

No positive messages. 

Positive Role Models & Representations

No positive role models. 

Violence

Comic violence: extended fistfight between lead character and a Buddhist monk; lead character tased on an airplane, hits a cocktail server with a cane taken from a visually impaired man. Transvestite prostitute punches out a car window. In an anger management support group, talk of biting off toes and stapling lips shut. In a flashback scene, lead character given a wedgie by a bully. 

Sex

Sex a frequent topic of conversation, sexual references a constant punchline. References to the size, age, and functionality of the penises of the male characters. A woman strips to bra and panties in front of the lead character and talks of wanting to have sex with him. A lesbian couple, both porn stars, make out in the middle of an anger management meeting as the men in the room leer and encourage it. Reference to the sex addiction support group meeting next to the anger management support group meeting. 

Language

Constant profanity. "F--k." Frequent penis-themed references and euphemisms. A transvestite prostitute says she's from a town in Germany called "Lickin Zee Dickin." One-liner makes a joke about prison rape. "Retarded." "Son of a bitch," "s--t," "crap," "ass," "bastard," "a--hole." Middle finger gesture. 

Consumerism

ESPN Zone a setting for one scene. New York Yankees, Boston Red Sox feature prominently in two scenes. 

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Cocktail drinking, beer drinking, in bars, on an airplane. Cigarette smoking. 

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Anger Management is a 2003 comedy in which Jack Nicholson plays a therapist who uses unusual methods to treat his unwilling subject, played by Adam Sandler. This movie is extremely raunchy for a PG-13, with constant jokes about penis size, plus jokes about lesbian porn stars who enjoy three-way sex, a drag queen prostitute, a mentally ill girl, masturbation, premature ejaculation, flatulence, and prison rape. It has comic violence --tasing, fistfights, bar fights. Characters drink and smoke. A character claims to be from a town in Germany called "Lickin Zee Dickin." There's frequent profanity, including "f--k."

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byzelda dude April 9, 2008

halarious

very funny and mature 15+
Adult Written bydoodlesalltheday April 9, 2008
Teen, 16 years old Written byhansolo95 October 11, 2011

Very funny, but NOT FOR KIDS!!!!!!!!

Ok, this one is a little confusing. Anger Management is a hilarious comedy, with one of the best endings I have ever seen, even if it may be a little predictabl... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written byCSM Screen Name... April 9, 2008

What's the story?

In ANGER MANAGEMENT, Dave (Adam Sandler), a deeply repressed executive assistant who designs clothing for overweight cats, is sentenced to anger management after a misunderstanding on an airplane and ends up in Dr. Rydell's (Jack Nicholson) therapy group. After another misunderstanding, he's sentenced to a full-time program that has the decidedly un-repressed Rydell moving in with him, going to work with him, and taking him on a road trip to Boston. Sparks fly as the two opposites try to deal with the uncomfortable arrangement. Rydell forces Dave to confront a childhood bully and pick up a pretty girl. He even persuades Dave to break up with his loyal girlfriend, Linda (Marisa Tomei). All of this is intended to get Dave to acknowledge his real feelings, leading to the inevitable "I learned so much from you!" conclusion.

Is it any good?

Just as mismatched as Anger Management's odd couple are the film's two competing scripts. The original script is credited to first-timer David Dorfman. Contributed by producer-star Adam Sandler, the second "script" has many pre-adolescent jokes about body parts and their functions and a lot of references to '80s pop culture. The result is an uneven blend of pretty low humor and REALLY low humor on the theme of utter humiliation. It's only barely saved by the sheer pleasure of watching Jack Nicholson.

Anger Management is a variation on every odd couple movie ever made, but especially Analyze This, which also had a comedian playing the straight man and a distinguished actor going wild. Adam Sandler plays his standard character. Yet while Nicholson plays his well-known "guy who just might do anything at any moment," he manages to toss in a few surprises.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how some comedic actors have a recognizable "brand" of comedy, a style that recurs in several of their movies. What is Adam Sandler's style, and what are the ways in which Anger Management is an example? Who are some other actors with a familiar comedic style seen across many of their movies? 

  • How is the casting of Jack Nicholson as the therapist an unexpected role for those familiar with the types of characters Nicholson is known for playing? 

  • How did the movie use stereotyping for the sake of humor? What groups were stereotyped? Is it all part of the obnoxious humor that is Sandler's style, or does it mine lazy humor out of groups that have often been easy targets of ridicule by society at large? 

Movie details

For kids who love to laugh

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