Parents' Guide to Before I Fall

Movie PG-13 2017 99 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Mix of iffy behavior, strong messages in well-acted YA tale.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 13+

Based on 11 parent reviews

age 13+

Based on 33 kid reviews

Kids say this movie is an emotionally charged depiction of high school life that tackles heavy themes like bullying, suicide, and the importance of making positive choices. While some viewers feel it is essential viewing for teens due to its powerful messages, others caution that the mature content, including explicit language and discussions of sex, makes it unsuitable for younger audiences.

  • mature themes
  • powerful message
  • bullying depiction
  • explicit language
  • emotional impact
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What's the Story?

Based on Lauren Oliver's best-selling 2010 young-adult novel, BEFORE I FALL follows 17-year-old Samantha "Sam" Kingston (Zoey Deutch). Sam seems to have it all as she heads off to school on "Cupid Day" -- the Friday before Valentine's Day, when everyone gets roses at school from friends, significant others, and secret admirers. Sam and her three best friends -- including queen bee Lindsay (Halston Sage), Elody (Medalion Rahimi), and Ally Harris (Cynthy Wu) -- plan to end their day at a keg party hosted by Kent (Logan Miller), Sam's former childhood friend. But at the party, where Sam was supposed to have sex for the first time with her boyfriend, Rob (Kian Lawley), the popular girls get into an ugly confrontation with Juliet (Elena Kampouris), the school misfit they've been bullying for years. As they leave the party, Sam and her friends get into a fatal car accident -- and, a moment later, Sam wakes up to find it's the morning of the same Friday she just lived. No matter what she does, Sam keeps repeating the same day, Groundhog Day-style ... until she figures out what her mission is and can finally move forward.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 11 ):
Kids say ( 33 ):

This well-acted young-adult adaptation explores powerful themes about making second chances count and seeing beyond the superficial to what really matters. Deutch -- looking very similar to her mother, Lea Thompson, circa Some Kind of Wonderful -- does a fabulous job carrying the film. She appears in every scene and has to modify her mood as Sam goes through the stages of grief while dealing with the confusion, anger, and determination of repeating the same day again and again. It's particularly impressive to watch Sam see her friends and family in a new light as she approaches the day with different attitudes -- sometimes abandoning all caution and acting aggressively, other times being sweet to her parents (Jennifer Beals plays her mother) and little sister in a way she hasn't in years.

Director Ry Russo-Young captures the spirit of Oliver's book while smartly making certain aspects a bit more ambiguous. The cast members are all up to the task, particularly Miller as the kind and encouraging Kent, and Sage as ice-queen Lindsay, who knows when to let the subtlest vulnerability show. But it's ultimately Deutch's performance that makes Before I Fall so moving. Her Sam is utterly believable. It takes her a while of repeating Cupid Day to perfect it; once she does, it's a beautiful, bittersweet day.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the messages in Before I Fall. What are they? What can viewers learn from Sam's journey?

  • How does the story convey the importance of empathy, courage, and communication? Why are they important character strengths?

  • What does the movie have to say about bullying? Who acts like a bully throughout the movie, and who doesn't? How do characters redeem themselves?

  • How does the movie depict underage drinking? Does it seem realistic? What are the consequences?

  • For those familiar with the book: How does the movie compare to the novel? Is it faithful? What, if anything, did you miss? What changes did you like?

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