Parents' Guide to Bend It Like Beckham

Movie PG-13 2003 112 minutes
Bend It Like Beckham Movie Poster: Jess and Jules hug, cheering, with a soccer ball and the movie's title behind them

Common Sense Media Review

By Nell Minow , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Superb tale of a British Indian girl's fight for her dreams.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 13+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 11+

Based on 21 parent reviews

Parents say this movie is an engaging exploration of cultural themes, identity, and the empowerment of girls in sports, making it a rich discussion starter for families; however, its mature content, including romantic relationships and some language, makes it better suited for older tweens and teens rather than young children. While many appreciate its humor and positive messages, some parents noted discomfort regarding the relationships depicted, particularly the dynamics between a coach and his players.

  • cultural themes
  • strong female roles
  • mature content
  • family discussions
  • humor and empowerment
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age 11+

Based on 38 kid reviews

Kids say this movie is fun and empowering, featuring strong female characters who challenge cultural norms while pursuing their passion for soccer. Although it carries some content concerns like mild language and scenes involving suggestive themes, many viewers appreciate its positive messages about following dreams, making it suitable for older kids and families.

  • empowerment
  • cultural themes
  • mild language
  • positive messages
  • age recommendations
  • strong characters
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What's the Story?

In BEND IT LIKE BECKHAM, Jess (Parminder Nagra) is the daughter of tradition-minded parents who've mapped her life's path from law degree to Indian husband to perfecting her ability to cook aloo gobi. They've also allowed her to develop her natural soccer-playing talents by turning a blind eye to her practices in the park with her best friend, Tony (Ameet Chana). When Jess' older sister, Pinky (Archie Panjabi), prepares to get married, their parents decide that it's time for Jess to settle down. But just as they're telling her to curb her sports pursuits, she's offered the opportunity to take her playing to the next level -- and meets fellow player Jules (Keira Knightley) and her tough-love Irish coach, Joe (Jonathan Rhys Meyers). Pulled in two different directions, Jess must learn how to balance her duties to her family -- and to herself.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 21 ):
Kids say ( 38 ):

Spunky and easy to watch, this feel-good movie bridges the distance between old country and new with the deft touch of a David Beckham penalty kick. For any girl whose athletic endeavors were ever questioned by conservative parents, Bend It Like Beckham is a color-drenched fairy tale where you know from the opening credits that the story will end in the "happily ever after" category for plucky Jess. Yes, this sunny little movie is about second-generation Indian families in England striving to maintain traditions that kids, more British than Indian, find increasingly irrelevant. But no matter your cultural background, the central theme that you should follow your bliss no matter the hurdle is universal.

On the one hand, the story might not seem strikingly original, and the script's handling of LGBTQ+ material has not aged well (to say the least). But the colorful tones of the movie, overlit action scenes, and genuine appeal of the characters -- especially Jess -- make this film enjoyable, engaging, and entertaining. Even if the answers seem a bit simple, it's nice to think that complicated relationships and challenges can be resolved with proper communication and the ability to make nice with others.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about why Jess feels like she can't talk to her family about her love of sports in Bend It Like Beckham. How does she defend her sneaking around?

  • How does Jess' father's past experience playing cricket impact how he views his daughter's love of soccer?

  • After Jess is called a racial slur, Joe tells her, "I'm Irish -- of course I understand what that feels like." Does that seem believable? What are the differences between being an Irish man and a Punjabi Sikh woman in London? Are there similarities?

  • How do the characters in Bend It Like Beckham demonstrate teamwork and courage? Why are these important character strengths?

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