Parents' Guide to Big Daddy

Movie PG-13 1999 93 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

By Nell Minow , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 12+

Adam Sandler comedy has crude humor, language, stereotypes.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 12+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 13+

Based on 15 parent reviews

Parents say this movie is a hilarious and entertaining film with a mix of innuendo, foul language, and comedic moments, which many believe are manageable for older children. While some parents note the inappropriate parts, they appreciate the underlying messages about family and accepting responsibility.

  • hilarious film
  • inappropriate content
  • family messages
  • great for teens
  • manageable language
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age 11+

Based on 66 kid reviews

Kids say this film is a mix of humor and heartwarming moments, but contains significant profanity and sexual jokes, making it more suitable for older kids and teens rather than younger ones. While many appreciate its comedic value and emotional themes, they also caution about the adult content that may not be appropriate for all audiences.

  • humor mixed with heart
  • significant profanity
  • suitable for older kids
  • emotional themes
  • caution for younger audiences
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What's the Story?

BIG DADDY centers on Sonny Koufax (Adam Sandler), a shiftless young man who's wasting his life, much to the chagrin of his parents, friends, and girlfriend. One day, 5-year-old Julian (played by twins Cole and Dylan Sprouse) is abandoned on Sonny's doorstep by mistake. Rather than place the boy in an orphanage, Sonny agrees to take care of him for a few days, thinking it will help win back his ex-girlfriend. At first, the two have fun behaving irresponsibly together, but gradually Sonny comes to love the boy and realizes that he wants to keep him. For that, he'll need to take some responsibility and take on the Department of Social Services as well.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 15 ):
Kids say ( 66 ):

This comedy has all the unavoidable elements of most Adam Sandler films: slapstick humor, gross jokes, bodily functions galore, spectacular pratfalls, and plenty of sexual innuendo. Yet Big Daddy is a welcome return to the sweetness and heart of The Wedding Singer after the numbing dopiness of The Waterboy, and the tasteless portions (about 90% of the film) are played in such a broad, obvious way that there's little risk teens will mistake this for acceptable behavior.

This isn't a profound movie, but teens may well enjoy it. Sandler has a light enough touch that the movie doesn't become sentimental or lose its sense of humor by adding some heart. Like the character he plays, Sandler is beginning to learn that you can be responsible and funny at the same time.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the appeal of silly comedies such as Big Daddy. Where's the line between funny and offensive? What jokes or references, if any, do you think crossed that line?

  • How is product placement used in this movie? Why do some movies have what amounts to commercials shoehorned into the story? Do you think this is a problem? Does it affect how you see the brands, and does it encourage you to buy them?

  • Adam Sandler has a distinct style and personality that often defines his movies. Who are some other actors with their own signature styles, in both comedy and drama? How do they compare?

  • The movie makes jokes at the expense of others and includes stereotypes about immigrants, women, and a gay couple. Why is it important to consider the impact of seeing repeated clichés about people?

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