Big Daddy

Movie review by
Nell Minow, Common Sense Media
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Parents recommendPopular with kids
Typical Adam Sandler: charm mixed with crude humor.
  • PG-13
  • 1999
  • 93 minutes

Parents say

age 12+
Based on 16 reviews

Kids say

age 11+
Based on 58 reviews

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A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Movie is too ludicrous to have any real positive messages. 

Positive Role Models & Representations

No real positive role models. 


Comedic pratfalls. Characters fall down, hit their heads. To make a child laugh, the lead character jumps in front of a moving vehicle and gets hit. 


Jokes referencing sex. Humor mined out of two men being gay and expressing it through comments and kissing. Sign in bedroom reads "Live Nudes." 


Frequent profanity. The adopted child of the movie copies Adam Sandler's character and uses phrases such as "the goddamn Jets," "Is that the guy with the old balls?," "cut the crap," and "a--holes." Adults use variations on "s--t," "d--k," "hell," "a--hole," and "damn." Use of the middle-finger gesture. 


Frequent product placement: McDonald's, Hooters, Pepsi, Frito-Lay products, Yoo-hoo, SpaghettiOs. 

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

For comedic effect, a homeless man makes reference to taking too many mushrooms in the 1970s. Beer and alcohol drinking. A father reminds his son of the time he found a bag of marijuana in his desk. 

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Big Daddy is a 1999 Adam Sandler film in which Sandler plays an irresponsible man-child who "adopts" a young boy under false pretenses. There is frequent profanity; humor is mined from a 5-year-old saying things like, "Is that the guy with the old balls?" and "But I wipe my own ass." Adults use variations on "s--t," "d--k," "hell," "a--hole," and "damn." While the humor is on the whole typical goofy and obnoxious Sandler fare, jokes are made at the expense of overweight people, and the very idea of two men falling in love and showing their affection by flirting and kissing is seen as something awkward. There is an incredible amount of product placement, and characters repeatedly mentioning McDonald's, Hooters, Pepperidge Farm, Pepsi, and assorted Frito-Lay products. For comedic effect, a homeless man makes reference to taking too many mushrooms in the 1970s. Expect beer and alcohol drinking. A father reminds his son of the time he found a bag of marijuana in his desk. Overall, for those who enjoy Adam Sandler movies, this is typical of the formula he used to great success in the 1990s, and by this point, you either like it or you don't. 

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent of a 11 and 13-year-old Written byaveryt_m April 9, 2008

This is not a kids' movie

Somehow people think Adam Sandler makes kids' movies. He doesn't - they just happen to have kids in them sometimes. Sadly, that may draw families to... Continue reading
Adult Written byAperson. November 12, 2020

Love it

It is amazing though there is a couple inappropriate parts I just covered my sons eyes at that part
Kid, 10 years old October 3, 2020

These reviews are so darn wrong!!!

This movie is a feel good, fun family comedy to watch on your movie night. Here is my rating: Violence: 1/5 barely any and when there is just slapstick comedy a... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written bymoviemaniac21 April 4, 2021

good but has some iffy stuff for a kids movie

Great Adam Sandler comedy but has gay people that kiss throughout, and has a scene where you see a girl in her underwear. Guy talks about an old mans saggy priv... Continue reading

What's the story?

BIG DADDY centers on Sonny Koufax (Adam Sandler), a shiftless young man who is wasting his life, much to the chagrin of his parents, friends, and girlfriend. One day, 5-year-old Julian (played by twins Cole and Dylan Sprouse) is abandoned on his doorstep through a mix-up. Rather than place the boy in an orphanage, Koufax agrees to take care of him for a few days, thinking it will help him win back his ex-girlfriend. At first the two have fun behaving irresponsibly together, but gradually Koufax comes to love the boy and realizes that he wants to keep him. He also realizes that if he wants to keep Julian, he will have to begin to accept some responsibility. He sees the consequences of his slacker lifestyle in the influence he has on the child -- and in the risk he runs of losing him. Koufax fights the Department of Social Services in court when they come to take the boy back.

Is it any good?

Big Daddy has all the unavoidable elements of an Adam Sandler film: slapstick humor, gross jokes, bodily functions galore, spectacular pratfalls, and more than a sprinkling of sexual innuendo. Yet it's a welcome return to the sweetness and heart of The Wedding Singer after the numbing dopiness of The Waterboy, and the tasteless portions (about 90 percent of the film) are played in such a broad and obvious way that there's little risk teens will mistake this for acceptable behavior.

This is not a profound movie, but adolescents (and those who like adolescent humor) will enjoy it. Sandler has a light-enough touch that the movie doesn't become sentimental or lose its sense of humor by adding some heart to the characters. Like the character he plays, Sandler is beginning to learn that you can be responsible and funny at the same time.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about the appeal of silly comedies such as this one. Where is the line between funny and offensive?

  • How is product placement used in this movie? Why do some movies have what amounts to commercials shoehorned into the story? Do you think this is a problem? Why, or why not? 

  • Adam Sandler has a distinct style and personality that often defines his movies. Who are some other actors with their own distinct styles and personalities, in both comedy and drama? 

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