Parents need to know that Grown Ups stars Adam Sandler, David Spade, Chris Rock, Kevin James, and Rob Schneider in a comedy about old friends reuniting after a tragedy. Though it has ultimately has heart, that doesn't make up for the barrage of jokes that punch down at women, people of color, and anybody who isn't considered conventionally attractive. Language includes "s--t," "ass," "fugly," "idiot," and "midget," plus many, many fat jokes. Lots of slapstick such as pratfalls, crashing into trees and buildings, and a hot stone sizzling on skin—all with comedic screaming. Friends play a game in which they shoot an arrow into the air and then run away, hoping to avoid it as it crashes down; it pierces people's feet and they scream in pain, later wearing bandages. Gross-out humor involves farts, getting urinated on, face-planting into poop, peeing in a pool, and breastmilk spraying on someone's face. Male buttocks are shown and there are plenty of sexual innuendoes/references and instances of men objectifying women. In one scene, dads ogle their friend's daughter, who's shown bent over a car, her butt on display as they sit in lawn chairs and make crude comments. Breastfeeding is sexualized; when a mom pumps, a character says to himself, "Is that getting me horny? Yes." One character is almost always drunk, shown taking shots and hugging a liquor bottle. The film has a sequel, Grown Ups 2.
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Products & Purchases
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Many brands are mentioned by name and/or appear on screen, including Godiva, Cadillac, Dunkin' Donuts, Wii, Voss water, and Budweiser. One character wears a KFC bucket on his head in several scenes.
Drinking, Drugs & Smoking
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Adults make jokes in front of children about "getting wasted" (the kids then start using this term, thinking it means something else). One adult character is buzzed or drunk most of the movie. He drinks shots and encourages others to join him and cradles a bottle of liquor.
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"Ass" and "s--t" are used once or twice; other words include "d--k," "boob," "damn," "crap," "hell," "pansy" (as an insult), "fugly," "idiot," "midget," and "oh my God" (as an exclamation). A child's ringtone includes the word "bi-atch." Plenty of scenes include kids pseudo-swearing with words like "shiz-nizzle" and "shiznit." Several taunts about body size, including "fat" (used as an insult), calling a man "B-cups," and a joke about bulimia making someone thin.
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One male character is seen from behind, naked from the waist down. Another man urinates into the lake, seen clothed from behind with a urine stream visible—a boat full of women pass by and say "it's gross-looking," implying his penis. Breastfeeding is sexualized; when a mom pumps, a character says to himself, "Is that getting me horny? Yes." Plus lots of other innuendoes and suggestive dialogue/sexual references, but no on-screen sex. Several scenes show the male leads ogling scantily clad women, whose cleavages and butts are sexualized by the camera as it zooms in, and records slow-mo, on women's bodies.
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Lots of slapstick such as pratfalls, crashing into trees and buildings, and a hot stone sizzling on skin—all with comedic screaming. Friends play a game in which they shoot an arrow into the air and then run away, hoping to avoid it as it crashes down. (It pierces people's feet and they scream in pain, later shown with bandages.) Kids are shown playing a video game in which they shoot and kill other characters, cartoonish blood spurting in the game. Unwanted groping is played for humor. Brief rape joke about "mommy's boyfriend touching you."
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The movie explores the impact of middle age, depicting it as a time when people start coming to terms with who they are instead of who they thought they would be. Part of that realization process is that people still have time to change if they want to—though some of the people who try get discouraged because it can be tough. The movie presents childhood as a time for imaginative play and adventure seeking, rather than texting or playing video games. Amid the broader messages are a fair number of potty-humor gags (peeing in the pool) and endless fatphobic/sexist/ageist jokes.
Positive Role Models
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The five main characters are extreme caricatures of middle-aged men. None of them has their act completely together, but some are worse off than others. They bully one another with mean-spirited taunts and objectify/leer at women, all while they're on vacation with their wives and kids. Their kids act up; in one family, they boss their nanny around, expecting to be waited on. Affluent and entitled, these kids are put off by their stay at a lake cabin and long for the luxuries—video games, Voss water—to which they're accustomed, though they do eventually discover the joys of unplugged activities, like going to a water park. Female characters are thinly drawn, sexualized, and often the butt of jokes.
Diverse Representations
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The main characters are mostly White men, with one Black character played by Chris Rock. There are endless fat jokes, such as calling a man "B-cups," a joke about bulimia making someone thin, referring to someone as "the Eater," etc. Racist jokes include Lenny's wife (played by Salma Hayek) getting called a "quesadilla," and a Chinese nanny, Rita, is stereotypically subservient and accented. A White character also assumes that Rita's a sex worker ("I've been on those websites too"), simply for being Asian. Women are two-dimensional and objectified—dads ogle their friend's daughter, who's shown bent over a car, her butt on display as they sit in lawn chairs and make crude comments. Characters repeatedly shame Rob's wife for being older than him, calling her "Grandma Gloria," and she's treated with disgust. The film implies that "good" parents aren't supposed to need a nanny for help.
Parents say that while some find the film entertaining with its humorous moments and themes of friendship, many others express deep concerns about the excessive sexual innuendos, crude humor, and inappropriate content for children. The movie's portrayal of certain topics like the tooth fairy, drinking, and adult relationships sparks discomfort, leading many to recommend it only for older teens rather than younger viewers.
crude humor
inappropriate content
sexual innuendos
recommendations for older teens
mixed parental responses
Summarized with AI
age 12+
Based on 216 kid reviews
What's the Story?
When he gets word that his former basketball coach has heard the "final buzzer" and passed away, Lenny (Adam Sandler)—once the fearless leader of the coach's only championship team, all of them now GROWN UPS—decides it's time to round up the troops: former teammates Eric (Kevin James), Kurt (Chris Rock), Marcus (David Spade), and Rob (Rob Schneider). While in their hometown for the funeral, the guys bunk at an old lodge that brings back fond memories, even as their wives (played by Salma Hayek, Maria Bello, Maya Rudolph, and Joyce Van Patten) and kids try to hit it off. Will the coach's death force the men to re-evaluate their game plan before their own final buzzer?
Here's one of those movies that looks great in trailers but ultimately disappoints. With a cast like this, Grown Ups really ought to be a slam dunk. But it's hobbled by a lackluster script that has little at stake for the characters. And the jokes: Despite the fact that it stars five successful comedians, the same jokes are recycled throughout. How many bits do we really need about a nanny camouflaged as an exchange student, a grandmother's bunioned toe, a retiree's marriage to a younger man, a man's voracious appetite, and a still-nursing 4-year-old?
The five leads share some chemistry, but not enough to make a lifelong friendship believable. They're so cruel to each other that you have to wonder how they stayed friendly. And the women are nothing more than weak supporting acts and fodder for chauvinistic jokes. The film does have a few nice moments, such as the paper-cup extravaganza and the flashbacks. But on the whole, Grown Ups is a stunted comedy.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about who Grown Ups is targeted at. Is it intended to appeal to families? Adults? Who might enjoy the film's brand of humor?
The movie relies on countless stereotypes for humor, whether it's punching down at fat people, women over 50, women in general, Latinos, Asians, etc. Which ones did you notice? Do you think these jokes are funny? Why, or why not?
What is the movie saying about kids' love of tech? How do you balance technology and outdoor time at home?
MPAA explanation
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crude material including suggestive references, language and some male rear nudity
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October 9, 2025
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