Parents' Guide to Isn't It Romantic

Movie PG-13 2019 88 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Joyce Slaton By Joyce Slaton , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Laughs, thoughtful messages in charming romcom satire.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 12+

Based on 15 parent reviews

Parents say the film is a delightful and funny take on romantic comedies, with many viewers finding it enjoyable for family viewing, especially praising the performances and humorous content. However, some critics felt it fell flat, lacking depth and failing to deliver a meaningful narrative, while others appreciated its charm and positive messages despite some mature themes and language.

  • funny moments
  • family viewing
  • mixed reviews
  • charming performances
  • shallow narrative
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age 12+

Based on 33 kid reviews

What's the Story?

ISN'T IT ROMANTIC's Natalie (Rebel Wilson) thinks love is pretty stupid and romantic comedies are even dumber. But when a mysterious head injury traps her in a parallel romcom universe, she's forced to play out the genre's conventions in hopes of escaping back to her own life. All romantic comedies end in true love and a kiss, right? So if she can get gorgeous billionaire Blake (Liam Hemsworth) to fall in love with her, she should be good to go. But although her apartment has suddenly transformed into a luxurious palace and her closet is filled with gorgeous clothes and matching shoes, there are downsides to her new life -- chiefly, that her best friends, Whitney (Betty Gilpin) and Josh (Adam Devine), aren't close to her anymore. Can Nat find her way out of a world that's all surface and no substance, and back into her imperfect but real life?

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 15 ):
Kids say ( 33 ):

Wilson is an absolute hoot in a starring role that makes the most of her quirky talents -- but make no mistake, this takeoff on clichéd romcoms is anything but frivolous and forgettable. Instead, its sharp gags pack a punch, making points about both femininity and oft-reviled "chick flicks" that will resonate with viewers, particularly if they've sat through more than one movie about a beautiful woman who isn't quite whole until the true-love kiss at the end of her story. Nat ticks off the genre's old chestnuts in an early scene: Romantic comedy women wake up in full hair and makeup. They're always tripping over things, which those around them find charming, even though in real life "they'd think she has muscular dystrophy." And most of all, these imperfect cinematic manic pixies need men to complete them.

So when her head injury dumps Nat into a romcom world, she's at first surprised to see her dirty NYC block filled with flower beds and cupcake shops. Her dismissive neighbor has been transformed into a queeny best friend who waits around in Nat's apartment for the moment she needs a cocktail-gossip session or a makeover. And men everywhere flock to her, particularly the hot but jerky Blake, a client who didn't even notice Nat before. Romcoms also end with the main character falling in love -- so surely if Nat can get Blake to declare his love for her, that will bring this bizarre chapter of her life to an end. But, as she soon discovers, Blake's shallow affection is worth far less than Nat's true feelings for herself. She doesn't need a man to round off her life -- she's complete, and wonderful, all on her own. That realization is what will leave her ready to take on the world confidently and on her own terms, including a romantic relationship with a man who's already proved himself her equal.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about what Natalie learns about confidence, body acceptance, and friendship by the end of Isn't It Romantic. Can you think of other movies that celebrate and empower women and girls? Do most romantic comedies do this? Or the opposite?

  • How does Natalie demonstrate self-control and courage in her quest to return to her real life? Why are these important character strengths?

  • A head injury is what leads to Natalie's adventures here. Can you think of other movies in which a head injury gives someone powers or somehow changes his or her life in a magical way? Why do you think filmmakers use this plot device? Is it realistic? Is it a cliché? What happens in real life to people who receive head injuries?

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