My Bloody Valentine (1981)

Movie review by
James Rocchi, Common Sense Media
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Old-school slasher film is too gory for kids.
  • R
  • 1981
  • 91 minutes

Parents say

age 14+
Based on 3 reviews

Kids say

age 14+
Based on 11 reviews

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A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Discussion of the dirty, dangerous work of mining; the film revolves in part around a love triangle, with heartfelt discussions of love lost and regret between the murders.


Pickaxe murder; murder by power tool; deadly cave-ins; disembodied organs are seen; drinking games are played with knives; a shriveled and burned body tumbles out of a clothes dryer; murder by boiling water; by impalement with shower unit; hanging; mutilation, where a trapped man rips/bites/cuts off his own arm; cannibalism; more murders, all quite graphic. Fights between angry friends.


Some female undressing as a woman meets a man for an assignation and is killed (the mingling of sexuality and violence in the entire film is quite strong); some male bare-chested showering. Kissing by blanked-covered persons; a condom is shown.


Some, including "f--k," "son-of-a-bitch," "dammit," "s--t," and "hell," "a--holes," and more


Some brands (Camel ciagrettes, Moosehead beer) visible.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Beer and hard liquor are drunk; cigarettes are smoked. Chewing tobacco is enjoyed.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this iconic slasher film -- recently remade as My Bloody Valentine 3-D -- is full of gory deaths, especially in this DVD's "Unrated" version; the stalking miner-suit wearing killer is also quite frightening. The film also has the requisite '80s slasher-film link between sex and death, where teens at play are targets for a killer's wrath while doing the figurative deed.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byBlackchristmas November 22, 2019

Old school slasher isn’t for kids

this iconic slasher film -- recently remade as My Bloody Valentine 3-D -- is full of gory deaths, especially in this DVD's "Unrated" version; the... Continue reading
Adult Written byShane T. November 26, 2017
Teen, 13 years old Written byram234533ds May 26, 2020

My bloody valentine review.

This movie is a high 3 almost four just not quite there. Very gory though. Stabbing and gore is frequent. Similar to Friday the 13th. The sex is plains 80s... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written byActionMovieGuy May 10, 2020

Loved it!!

This movie has some stabbings, pretty gored scenes, and cannibalism. Some sex, Naked women poster in background is very visible. Making out, average 80’s movie... Continue reading

What's the story?

In the small mining town of Valentine's Bluffs, there's a 20-year-old secret of mystery and murder. While the mine's managers were at a Valentine's Day dance, a cave-in trapped and killed a number of workers; the one survivor who escaped, Harry Warden, avenged himself on the managers and supervisors through bloody murder, sending their torn-out hearts inside candy packages as a dire warning. Harry was sent to the asylum, but 20 years later, as the town prepares for Valentine's Day festivities, a new killer stalks the town; is Harry back, or has a new killer taken up his murderous crusade?

Is it any good?

This is worth viewing as a historical curiosity -- and the film's mining-town setting is used to make for a unique, chilling variation on the classic slasher flick as well.

At the same time, a unique slasher flick is still, at heart, a slasher flick; My Bloody Valentine's screaming victims and bloody murders are fairly pedestrian stuff, albeit well-made, with a little more emphasis on personal relationships and character than you might expect. My Bloody Valentine will have some historical interest for fans of slasher films, especially with this DVD's extras and presentation of the unrated cut, but it's still, at the end of the day, an '80s horror quickie.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about the appeal of the slasher film -- what makes these movies so well-loved, and such often-remade movies by modern Hollywood? Families can also talk about the Freudian link between sex and death in these films; why do these movies seem compelled to show teens being murdered during sex? Is it a cautionary warning, or grim exploitation?

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