Parents' Guide to My Spy

Movie PG-13 2020 99 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Funny but formulaic action comedy has violence, language.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 13+

Based on 33 parent reviews

age 10+

Based on 51 kid reviews

Kids say the movie offers a humorous and entertaining experience, but it's loaded with strong language and violence, making it more suitable for older children around 10 or 11 years old. While some viewers appreciate its funny moments and positive messages, many express concerns regarding the appropriateness of its content due to the frequent bad language and depictions of violence that may not be ideal for younger audiences.

  • funny moments
  • strong language
  • excessive violence
  • age-appropriate concerns
  • family themes
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What's the Story?

MY SPY opens during a covert deal in which CIA agent JJ (Dave Bautista) is outed as a spy because his "Russian accent sounds like Mickey Rourke's in Iron Man 2." Once the dust settles and JJ has killed nearly everyone in the room, he returns to CIA headquarters. There, his supervisor, Agent Kim (Ken Jeong), confronts JJ about the fact that he let one of the criminal masterminds escape with nuclear weapon codes. Partially as punishment, JJ is teamed with ops partner Bobbi (Kristen Schaal) on a surveillance mission in Chicago to watch over the young widow and daughter of a dead arms dealer. While in Chicago, JJ and Bobbi are discovered by their 9-year-old subject, Sophie (Chloe Coleman), who blackmails JJ into giving her spy lessons (and generally doing what she says). If he doesn't, she'll tell her mom, Kate (Parisa Fitz-Henley), the truth about what's going on.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 33 ):
Kids say ( 51 ):

Scene-stealing child star Coleman outperforms Bautista in this familiar but fun tough-guy-meets-adorable-kid adventure comedy that's a direct descendant of Kindergarten Cop. Bautista, who's fabulous as Drax in the Guardians of the Galaxy/Avengers movies, brings a similar, somewhat awkward persona to My Spy, but he's not quite as suave or charismatic as Dwayne Johnson or Arnold Schwarzenegger, which impacts his ability to completely pull off the role. He's particularly lacking in the light romantic chemistry that's supposed to blossom between JJ and Kate (something The Rock is great at but that Schwarzenegger has similarly struggled with throughout his career).

Since the adults' romance is a secondary concern here, what really stands out is how great Coleman is with Bautista, and Schaal's performance as JJ's eager partner, Bobbi. The two actresses metaphorically carry Bautista on their shoulders. His butt-kicking, eye-squinting, feel-no-pain demeanor, after all, can only garner so many laughs. But thanks to Schaal's comic timing and Coleman's surprisingly magnetic presence, the movie is better than you'd expect. An off-putting misstep is the stereotypical depiction of Kate and Sophie's gay neighbors (one of whom is flamboyant and one of whom never speaks) and a throwaway line about whether Bobbi is a lesbian. There's also more violence and language you might expect based on marketing, etc. Still, while it's definitely formulaic, there's enough in My Spy to enjoy that it could make for a fun movie-of-the-week pick.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the popularity of tough-guy-meets-kid comedies like My Spy. What's compelling about them? What are some other examples, and how do they compare to this one?

  • Who do you consider a role model in the movie? What character strengths do they demonstrate? Why are teamwork and communication important traits?

  • Discuss the violence in the story. Is it realistic, stylized, cartoonish, or a combination? What kind of violence has the most impact?

  • Did you notice any stereotypes in the movie? Why are stereotypes harmful? Why is diverse, accurate representation in the media so important?

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