Parents' Guide to Phoebe in Wonderland

Movie PG-13 2009 96 minutes
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S. Jhoanna Robledo By S. Jhoanna Robledo , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Touching, at times intense drama teaches tolerance, empathy.

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age 11+

Based on 9 parent reviews

age 10+

Based on 10 kid reviews

Kids say that the film presents important themes around mental health and Tourette's syndrome but can be disturbing for younger viewers due to its darker elements and occasional bloody scenes. While it features strong performances, particularly from Elle Fanning, reactions vary widely; some find it captivating and meaningful, while others consider it choppy and lacking a clear purpose.

  • mature themes
  • strong performances
  • disturbing elements
  • mixed reactions
  • viewer discretion
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What's the Story?

Hillary (Felicity Huffman) knows her 9-year-old daughter marches to the beat of her own drum. Phoebe (Elle Fanning, in an excellent performance) is creative, charismatic, and, yes, troubled. Her world's delicate balance is easily upended, sending her into loops of destructive and obsessive-compulsive behavior (incessant hand-washing, repeating specific stepping sequences). It's hard on her family: Her father is overwhelmed, her younger sister is tired of Phoebe getting all the attention, and Hillary is nearly lost. They all wonder if Phoebe will ever conquer her demons. A lead part in the school play, Alice in Wonderland, and quirky drama teacher Miss Dodger (Patricia Clarkson), may be Phoebe's salvation ... until the principal (Campbell Scott) decides to punish her for another behavioral mishap by yanking her out of it. Everyone wonders: What's wrong with Phoebe?

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 9 ):
Kids say ( 10 ):

Visually appealing and full of surprises, PHOEBE IN WONDERLAND takes audiences on a fanciful journey into a strange world spun by a complicated child. And what a vivid place it is! Writer-director Daniel Barnz paints a colorful, whimsical universe for Phoebe -- one worthy of Alice herself. But it's also moody and foreboding, where life requires running hard just to stay in place, where familiar behaviors both soothe and torment, and where your own skin doesn't feel so good to live in. The grown-ups don't appear to have the answers, either, except perhaps to brand Phoebe as eccentric or problematic.

Barnz keeps the feel kinetic and highly stylized with quick cuts and costumed characters. Everything is made to feel allegorical: Clarkson's Miss Dodger, Scott's principal, and even Phoebe's classmates are all rendered left of center. It's all well and good -- except for the fact that it somewhat misrepresents the film. Viewers expect an oddball denouement, or maybe even a creepy one. But that's not what they get. For what ails Phoebe isn't some mystery or eccentricity; it's something very real and heartbreaking. And when it's revealed, all that fantasy seems unnecessary. The film already does a great job exploring the isolated -- and isolating -- corners of parenting, and it doesn't really need all that whimsy to make its point. With fewer fantastical bells and whistles, PHOEBE IN WONDERLAND wouldn't have been as look-at-me dazzling. But it would have been far more powerful.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how the film blends real life and fantasy. Does the fantasy make the drama more or less effective? Why? How does Phoebe's imagination help her cope with her life? Do you think her parents react appropriately to what's going on? What about her teachers and classmates? What does Phoebe learn from the play, and how does it help her feel better, if at all? How well does the film address any questions about Phoebe's dilemma?

Movie Details

  • In theaters : March 6, 2009
  • On DVD or streaming : June 23, 2009
  • Cast : Elle Fanning , Felicity Huffman , Patricia Clarkson
  • Director : Daniel Barnz
  • Inclusion Information : Queer Movie Director(s) , Female Movie Actor(s)
  • Studio : THINKFilm
  • Genre : Drama
  • Run time : 96 minutes
  • MPAA rating : PG-13
  • MPAA explanation : thematic material and brief strong language
  • Last updated : October 9, 2025

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