The Week Of

Movie review by
Barbara Shulgasser-Parker, Common Sense Media
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Raunchy comedy about dad throwing a wedding for daughter.
  • NR
  • 2018
  • 116 minutes

Parents say

age 14+
Based on 6 reviews

Kids say

age 12+
Based on 7 reviews

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Positive Messages

You don't need to have money or good taste to enjoy a good life and a loving family.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Kenny loves his family, struggles to support them in the style he'd like to see them live. He's kind, generous, accommodating to everyone. Kirby has lived for his own pleasure, ignoring his adult children's lives, and isn't as close to them as he would like. He sees the errors of his ways, tries to make up for it. Family members behave selfishly, camping out too long in their host's home, failing to pitch in.


Violence is played for laughs. An aged double amputee is thrown into a pit of squishy cubes and sinks out of sight, triggering a fatal stroke. A brief reference is made to a wife beating her husband. A fire breaks out during a wedding, forcing the guests to evacuate. One takes a floral centerpiece with her as she leaves.


Sarah's drunk friend throws herself at a hapless neighbor and they fall into bed (clothed) later. Strippers (in bikinis) entertain on trampolines at a bachelor party. Sarah's friends throw her a bachelorette party featuring party favors in the shape of penises, including Dickorice, TipStick, and penis whistles. A surgeon makes a small-penis joke about an unconscious patient on the operating table. A man describes "whacking off" into a vacuum cleaner hose and Bisquik mix in his youth.



Language includes "f--k," "s--t," "ass," and "t-ts."

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

A teenager is just out of rehab and worried that he'll encounter triggers for his addiction. Adults drink alcohol.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that The Week Of looks at the obstacles -- financial and otherwise -- a devoted dad negotiates as he struggles to put on an affordable wedding for his adored daughter. The story, written by Adam Sandler and director Robert Smigel, focuses on the importance of love for family over wealth and success. It's all peppered with raunchy humor that includes a running joke featuring an elderly double amputee who needs help going to the bathroom, as well as strippers on trampolines and a bachelorette party with penis party favors. A youth just out of rehab struggles with triggers for his addiction. A brief reference is made to a wife beating her husband. A fire breaks out during a wedding, forcing the guests to evacuate. Adults drink alcohol, and language includes "f--k," "s--t," "ass," and "t-ts."

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent Written byMya S. May 6, 2018

Has GD in it

Movie does say GD in it despite the description on here NOT including it!
Adult Written byyen15 April 6, 2020

don't recommend

I love Adam Sandler and his movies but this one really disappointed me. I didn't find it in the least funny and although some may disagree I'm sorry... Continue reading
Teen, 17 years old Written byMarvel_Lover March 2, 2021

Hilarious Movie!!

I watched this with my mature 8 y/o little sister and she understood the contents and took it well. She is mature for her age so I would recommend this movie fo... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written byPaycommon23 December 16, 2020

The best

mature 11 year olds COULD watch it, but they probably wouldn't find anything in the movie that funny because its meant for older audiences.

What's the story?

THE WEEK OF follows Long Island contractor Kenny Lustiger (Adam Sandler) as he tries to mount a decent but discount Jewish wedding for his beloved daughter Sarah (Allison Strong) to her med student black fiancé Tyler (Roland Buck III). Stubbornly refusing a financial contribution from Tyler's wealthy Los Angeles surgeon dad Kirby (Chris Rock), Kenny secures the rundown motel his company did shoddy work for, and everything that can go wrong does. Many jokes derive from the indignities of Uncle Seymour (Jim Barone), an 87-year-old double amputee with diabetes, whose wheelchair doesn't work. Kenny cheerfully carries his uncle everywhere. Seymour runs out of clean laundry and wears his WWII uniform to a Little League game, where it's assumed he lost his legs in battle rather than to diabetes, encouraging strangers to repeatedly thank him for his service. Eventually, the mayor offers to honor him as a war hero with a party at City Hall, which Kenny plans to secretly use as his daughter's wedding reception. When Seymour attends the bachelor party at a trampoline studio filled with strippers, he falls into a pit of spongy cubes and has a terminal stroke. The mayor reneges on the party, leaving Kenny to save face with his family (and this involves a bag full of live bats -- don't ask), and then a return to Plan A, the leaky motel. Tyler's bon vivant dad, who had left his son and daughter to pursue celebrity surgeries and unlimited women in Los Angeles, now disdains Kenny and his clan for being coarse and broke. But at the wedding, Kirby confesses to Kenny that he wishes he had devoted his life to his family, as Kenny had, instead of to his selfish whims. He seems to renew his commitment to his kids and ex-wife, and bonds with Kenny as they plan a family Thanksgiving at his home in St. Lucia, on his dime.

Is it any good?

The first eight minutes of this movie are filled with overacting, bad writing, and stereotypical characters and situations, forcing one to wonder how such a thing ever got made. The answer? Co-writer and star Sandler has a four-picture deal with Netflix, and this is item number four on the countdown to contract fulfillment. Sandler reportedly so much enjoyed the experience of making movies that didn't have to generate ticket sales that he re-upped for another four with the streaming service.

Sandler delivers many of his lines in an exaggerated New York accent, at a high-pitched squawk reminiscent of Gilbert Gottfried. Many moments in The Week Of are clever rather than funny: A man looks under the door of a restroom stall, sees no legs and wants to go in, unaware it's occupied by a legless man, and Steve Buscemi nibbles from a Toblerone bar as big as a go-kart. Here's hoping Sandler, Rock, and the rest of the cast and crew had a good time while making this, because it's doubtful anyone seeing it will.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about the way The Week Of makes a distinction between wealthy and not-so-wealthy families. The family that struggles here is also extremely generous to others. Do you think people with less are likely to share more, or do you think that is a fictional device used here to shore up the plot?

  • Adam Sandler yells a lot in this movie in moments meant to be humorous, especially during loud, offscreen fights with his wife. Do you think this approach works? Why or why not?

  • Is this movie a typical Adam Sandler film? How does it compare to other Sandler movies you've seen?

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