Common Sense Media Review
By S. Jhoanna Robledo
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based on child development research. How do we rate?
Message-heavy teen drama with iffy behavior, dark themes.
Parents Need to Know
Why Age 16+?
Any Positive Content?
Where to Watch
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To Save a Life
Parent and Kid Reviews
Based on 29 parent reviews
Parents say this film serves as an important educational tool for discussing serious issues like bullying, mental health, and personal responsibility with teenagers, making it a recommended watch before they head into middle school and high school. While it can be seen as relevant and impactful, some critics feel it attempts too many heavy topics, which may overwhelm younger viewers, and that the execution sometimes lacks realism, leading to mixed opinions on its overall effectiveness as a Christian-themed film.
- educational tool
- teenager issues
- mixed reviews
- heavy topics
- negativity in life
- parental guidance
Summarized with AI
Summarized with AI
Based on 29 kid reviews
What's the Story?
After his childhood best friend, Roger (Robert Bailey, Jr.) -- who once saved his life and whom he abandoned in pursuit of popularity -- kills himself at school, Jake (Randy Wayne) grows listless and unfocused. A popular high school senior, he no longer finds joy in the partying that has occupied his social life. He wants to understand Roger's motivation and longs for some peace. But getting that isn't easy: His friends and girlfriend don't understand why he's so tortured and won't drink anymore and why he's drawn to the church. But embracing a Christian life doesn't come easily, either.
Is It Any Good?
A youth pastor pleads for his flock not to be judgmental in one pivotal scene, but TO SAVE A LIFE is smothered by heavy-handedness. It means well, but it tries too hard to drive home its message, making for an awkwardly told tale. Solutions to teen angst are simplistic, like when high-schoolers decide to get opposing groups together by sitting in the school yard and inviting everyone to join. In another scene, a neighbor invites a senior to stop in for cookies (!) after he helps her with her groceries. The film heaps problem after problem on the shoulders of troubled characters as if they're being punished for their supposedly rudderless lives. Plus, the ending's pat. And the villains? They're bad to the (stereotypical) bone.
But some moments ring with authenticity -- Jake's struggle to make sense of Roger's devastating act, for one, and his reunion with Roger's mother after a long estrangement. One boy's sweetly dorky way of asking a girl out comes across as charming. And a pastor's explanation of how God and faith figure in one's life is refreshingly complex, tinted with a few shades of gray. Still, the film never quite rises above its afterschool-special vibe.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about what drives Jake to change. Why did he dump his friendship with Roger in the first place? What was the payoff? And why does Roger's death trigger his soul-searching?
Is this a message movie? If so, how does it deliver that message?
Parents, talk with your teens about the real-life consequences of behavior like underage drinking and sex. What do the characters in the movie learn about these topics? Are they realistic lessons?
Movie Details
- In theaters : January 22, 2010
- On DVD or streaming : August 2, 2010
- Cast : Deja Kreutzberg , Randy Wayne , Sean Michael
- Director : Brian Baugh
- Studio : New Song Pictures
- Genre : Drama
- Run time : 120 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : mature thematic elements involving teen suicide, teen drinking, some drug content, disturbing images and sexuality
- Last updated : October 9, 2025
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