Parents' Guide to Sex and the City

TV Max , Netflix Comedy 1998
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Common Sense Media Review

S. Jhoanna Robledo By S. Jhoanna Robledo , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Smart, sassy, sexy -- and for mature viewers only.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 16+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 13+

Based on 16 parent reviews

age 14+

Based on 25 kid reviews

Kids say that this TV show combines strong female representation with a significant focus on mature themes such as sex and relationships. While many reviews suggest it is appealing and offers valuable insights into women's empowerment, there are also concerns about its suitability for younger audiences due to the explicit content.

  • strong female roles
  • mature themes
  • viewer discretion advised
  • not for kids
  • empowerment messages
Summarized with AI

What's the Story?

SEX AND THE CITY is about sex—the need for it, the want of it, the pursuit of it—as well as what Sarah Jessica Parker (who plays the main character, sex columnist Carrie Bradshaw) once referred to as the "fifth lady" of the show: New York. The show has plenty of both, with dazzling shots of the Big Apple and lusty scenes of the women, mainly Samantha (Kim Cattrall), enjoying good, not-so-old-fashioned romps. Aside from Samantha, Carrie's "family" also includes Charlotte (Kristin Davis), an art gallery curator-turned-socialite with a heart of gold, and Miranda (Cynthia Nixon), a lawyer with a steely exterior who wants not only to be loved but to love someone back.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 16 ):
Kids say ( 25 ):

What makes this classic show so delightful is that it's also about a distinctly postmodern version of family: friends. As Carrie herself would probably type on her omnipresent laptop: Where would life be without friends? Though various men (and some women) may flit in and out of Sex and the City, the four women always have each other, and that's a joy to watch on-screen. Never have friendships been rendered so completely: The women may be fabulous, but their relationships unfold in completely human glory, warts and all.

Not that the show's perfect. In fact, sometimes, the characters play too much to type: Sex-starved Samantha wears thin, as when she beds a fireman (do viewers really need to see her in yet another strange position?). It's hard not to wonder just how Carrie can afford such expensive shoes on a writer's budget. Charlotte's preppy shtick borders on Pollyanna, and Miranda's simply too harsh. And the men? Most of them, including Carrie's main squeeze, Big (Chris Noth), are ne'er-do-wells, ready to break hearts. The lack of diversity depicted in New York City underscores just how fictional this show is. But when Sex and the City verges on irritating, it's rescued by witty writing and intelligent acting. (In one episode, when Carrie confronts her judgmental tendencies toward Samantha, the dialogue is stingingly, startlingly believable.) Often, if not always, the writers snap the show back to cold, harsh truths. And thank goodness for that.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about why the quest for love is the main theme of Sex in the City. And not just romantic love, either. What are the different types of love? How are they explored through main characters?

  • What role do friends have in your life? Do they sometimes take the place of family? Why, or why not?

  • What do you think about the main characters' focus on love, romance, and relationships? Does their sex positivity seem empowering? Are there other ways to be a strong and independent woman?

  • The series was a big cultural hit in the late 1990s and 2000s. What themes or portrayals endure today, and what feels outdated?

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