Parents' Guide to What Not to Wear

TV TLC Reality TV 2003
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Common Sense Media Review

By Brenda Kienan , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Wisecracking fashionistas say everyone can look good.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 13+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 14+

Based on 7 parent reviews

age 10+

Based on 25 kid reviews

Kids say the show elicits mixed feelings among viewers, as some praise its positive impact on self-esteem and fashion knowledge, while others criticize it for promoting conformity and harsh criticism of personal style. The common consensus is that while the hosts aim to uplift participants through makeovers, their approach can be perceived as mean-spirited, particularly towards those with alternative fashion choices.

  • positive messages
  • fashion advice
  • conformity concerns
  • self-esteem boost
  • harsh criticism
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What's the Story?

WHAT NOT TO WEAR has a simple, ultimately admirable message: No matter your shape, your size, or whatever physical liabilities or hang-ups you have, you can be beautiful. For dramatic effect, the show starts with an ambush. Friends and family of someone in need of fashion advice nominate her (or sometimes him) for a makeover. The subject is secretly filmed until -- surprise! -- fashion experts Stacy London and Clinton Kelly show up and announce they're giving her a $5,000 wardrobe and the benefit of their advice. In New York, the subject learns that said advice is wisecracking and mild ridicule, and a set of fashion rules. She's sent shopping and makes mistakes, prompting wisecracks from Stacy and Clinton, who eventually arrive on the scene to help her choose flattering clothes. After expert hairstyling by Nick Arrojo and a grooming and makeup lesson from Carmindy, the subject looks fantastic -- without plastic surgery, weight loss, or anything at all drastic.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 7 ):
Kids say ( 25 ):

The beauty of What Not to Wear is that even though the subject is initially mocked, she learns that she doesn't have to change any part of her core self in order to pep up her image. And when the subject shows off her changed image to Stacy, Clinton, and her friends and family, she's as delighted as everyone else at her transformation.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the nature of beauty and whether we all need to look like models. What assets do the people who appear on this show have -- including their talents, personalities, and apparent character? Is that attractive? How do they react to change?

  • How do you think these people's "new looks" will affect their futures? Does it matter? Should it matter? What kinds of messages do makeover shows send in general? And why do you think most of the subjects are women? Do men have less pressure to change their public image?

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